[Discussion] OT: Quote Source [WAS: Re: Installing eCS 2.0]
Felmon Davis
davisf at union.edu
Sat Jun 26 23:17:24 PDT 2010
On Sat, 26 Jun 2010, Bill Nicholls wrote:
> The ladies have sensitivities that are at an steep angle to male humor.
> I've learned this more or less the hard way thru the years. Gentle humor
> is almost always effective, but male humor is mostly of the pratfall
> variety.
>
> I've found it's always safer to provide a subtle compliment to the lady
> in question rather than exercise your humor, which is often a impedance
> mismatch with the female outlook.
>
> You Haff Been Warned!
and I find one of the top things that 'ladies' like in a fellow is
'you're really funny, you make me laugh.'
if you get her to laugh, you have touched her, but in a nice way.
so, Thomas,
you haff been advised!
choose.
but choose wisely.
especially your witticisms: an email that's empty except for a
self-referential joke may not tickle her unless she likes geeky (or
you!).
Felmon
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We're all in this alone.
-- Lily Tomlin
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